@andrewthornton why God allows bad things to happen is a very tough question. I had it explained that bad options must exist for there to be free-will; and all choose wrong sometimes. Jesus lived as we do and feels as we do. Your hurts are his too.
Hit a juvenile white tail deer last night (not an uncommon occurrence in Michigan, my first though). I’m fine, some minor looking damage to my car, but still drive able so far. The deer had to be put down. https://photos.app.net/22224158/1
@mandyd have you tried the Outpost in Holland? They won’t be cheap, but you could at least try them on. (I’d call to make sure they have them first. I’m sure I saw them there before, but it’s been a while.)