@oluseyi Have some empathy, let a person sit in their feelings, maybe take a look at your own behaviour when you’re asked to not do something. Treat dialogue like an opportunity to learn and not to assert how right your position is.
@oluseyi STOP. I hope you understand that if I need your opinion on someone here I’ll ask, privately. Don’t show up with recommendations about who i’d call an ally after I’ve spent days on points of difference with them…leave that choice to me