@mandyd sounds like I missed a discussion I'm better off for not having seen. I try every day to live up to my belief that there is more to gain in respectfully agreeing to disagree than feeding anger. Thank you for your kind comment, my friend.
@ggirton I didn't think I could, there are lots of things I haven't been able to do because I don't have a real address. But on my way out of the store I was asked if I wanted to do a survey, and the guy assures me there's no problem. So I did.